Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Matthew Weld O'Connor with the following comment:
I am currently researching the history of our family business which is a 100 years in the family in 2013. In 1867 I discovered that a Matthew Weld O'Connor had an involvement with the business at this time. I suspect that the Matthew Weld O'Connor on your gravestone may be a son of the 1867 Matthew going by the ages given in your record.